TOPIC: PROS AND CONS OF MARRIAGE.
SPEAKER: MISTRESS ADEKOYA AYOMIDE. S
Firstly, its a great privilege to be an elite to deliver tonight
And all thanks to the admins for this great privilege, I feel so honored 🙈Without wasting much of our time, let's dive into today's business properly and before then permit me to introduce my humble self
😁I'm Mistress Adekoya Serah Ayomide
*The pros and cons of marriage?*
"So we shall be considering 3 outlines under this topic
1. Does marriage really matters?
2. The marriage Coin
3. Should a marriage exist despite hurdles?I want to believe we all are adults here and we must be familiar with this topic...
Yes or Yes? Now To question 1.
Does marriage really matters?🤔, Can I have few responses before we move?
Marriage is a legal union between a man and a woman to become husband and wife and of which it's the will of God for every mankind.
Marriage, a legally and socially sanctioned union, usually between a man and a woman, that is regulated by laws, rules, customs, beliefs, and attitudes that prescribe the rights and duties of the partners and accords status to their offspring.Marriage is a concept which is far beyond agreeing to birth children or just coming to stay together and copulates each time. As we delve deeper in life, research have brought closer to us, realities that are far fetched from the primary school definition of Marriage. Agreeing to get married shows a certain degree of commitment to one another that isn’t equaled by any other informal arrangement.
As a matter of fact, as much as we have the formal and informal setting of learning, no structure be it genuine or counterfeit will teach you COMMITMENT which remains the most prioritized of all necessities about marriage.*So pathetic that many have ruled their lives with other person's COIN and at the end sunk into deep regrets.The question we should ask ourselves is WHAT IS MY VIEW ABOUT THIS STUFF I AM WALKING INTO?We need to see marriage, relationships from our side before we re-energize our thoughts. How can you live and hope to survive with another person's thought about things without consideration.
Please note that "IMITATION WITHOUT DEEP CONSIDERATION IS FOOLISHNESS"Let's see our Affective domain when it comes to relationship or marriages from our CO
SHOULD MARRIAGE EXIST DESPITE THE HURDLES?Yes! Because it's the will and commandment of God over every mankin
Marriage isn't limited to living together for copulations,
Discover God's purpose for that union
In recent times, the most serious family problems arise from finances. Therefore, determine a budget, live by it and save some mone
Keep your problems confidential. Share them if necessary, with *appropriate* Church leaders.Remember that if professional counseling is needed, make sure the counselor is understanding and sympathetic to gospel principles and will tailor counseling according to those principle
Encourage the development of your spouse's talents and interests; nurture and support each others dream, this makes for a more contented partne
Eliminate criticism. Resolve to pay your spouse at least one compliment a day. Build each other up.Understand the concept of "human imperfection" no one is perfect we're only managing our transition; cut your spouse some "slack
Be slow to anger. If a situation becomes too heated, declare a "time-out" for 30 minutes. Yes! Take a break by taking a walk or listen to music or see movies to get distracted.Do not carry grudges. Face problems as they arise, and do not allow them to fester. No dey pile Wahala, women are good at doing that! I know my gender.
Be committed to each other "commitment* is boldly written here obviously.... And it should be emphasized in relationships and Marriages.
Marriage proves commitment to your partner forever (barring anything out of the ordinary), which can make both partners feel more at ease and secure in the relationship. Having this kind of security and trust in the relationship can help your relationship/marriage flourish and grow. Knowing that you are committed to one another through marriage can also help you and your partner rise above conflict and rough patches. Knowing that you have a lifelong commitment will strengthen your bond through thick and thin, sickness and health, etc.Marriage is just a label. If you want to be committed to someone, you don’t need a piece of paper telling you that. You can be as dedicated, committed and loving partner as anyone else without getting married.Let's then proceed to the next
*THE MARRIAGE CONS*
Marriage is just a label. If you want to be committed to someone, you don’t need a piece of paper telling you that. You can be as dedicated, committed and loving partner as anyone else without getting married.Let's then proceed to the next
*THE MARRIAGE COIN*Marriage is a bond between two people that no one else understands. A partnership that gets each other through life when you need each other the most and share the most amazing experiences with. '
'Marriage, to me, means choosing your team-mate, committing to them and working together for the rest of your lives.
Although, marriage isn't limited to being team-mates.However, your side of the coin about marriage will definitely be different from other person's own. This is more reason couples or singles getting ready for marriage should avoid the COPY SYNDROME.YES! I tag it Copy Syndrome because what most of we ladies especially does lately is to check the media, look at our friends, pals at work or distant relatives to begin to compare their side of coin to ours.
So pathetic that many have ruled their lives with other person's COIN and at the end sunk into deep regrets.The question we should ask ourselves is WHAT IS MY VIEW ABOUT THIS STUFF I AM WALKING INTO?We need to see marriage, relationships from our side before we re-energize our thoughts. How can you live and hope to survive with another person's thought about things without consideration
Please note that "IMITATION WITHOUT DEEP CONSIDERATION IS FOOLISHNESS"Let's see our Affective domain when it comes to relationship or marriages from our COIN
SHOULD MARRIAGE EXIST DESPITE THE HURDLES?Yes! Because it's the will and commandment of God over every mankind.
Marriage isn't limited to living together for copulations, No!
Discover God's purpose for that union.
In recent times, the most serious family problems arise from finances. Therefore, determine a budget, live by it and save some money.
Keep your problems confidential. Share them if necessary, with *appropriate* Church leaders.Remember that if professional counseling is needed, make sure the counselor is understanding and sympathetic to gospel principles and will tailor counseling according to those principles.
Encourage the development of your spouse's talents and interests; nurture and support each others dream, this makes for a more contented partner.
Eliminate criticism. Resolve to pay your spouse at least one compliment a day. Build each other up.Understand the concept of "human imperfection" no one is perfect we're only managing our transition; cut your spouse some "slack."
Be slow to anger. If a situation becomes too heated, declare a "time-out" for 30 minutes. Yes! Take a break by taking a walk or listen to music or see movies to get distracted.Do not carry grudges. Face problems as they arise, and do not allow them to fester. No dey pile Wahala, women are good at doing that! I know my gender
Maintain a sense of humor; it can make all the difference in the world.Conclusively...
We should hold onto these👇🏻
1. Value marriage covenants; be committed to each other.
2. Pray together; apply counsel found in the scriptures.
3. Take time for each other; learn to communicate, listen.
4. Be sensitive to other's needs; express love; don't criticize.I would love to draw the curtain here tonight. So, we have come to the end of today's session.
Do have a wonderful night rest 🥰😍
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